Some who visit my blog will wonder why I have a link button called "Best Male Blogs" that has links to 90% porn. The button is because I have to put it on my blog as part of a service agreement with the site. The reason I signed up for the service is that this blog's intent is to reach out to gay men who need it the most. If you as a Christian are going to judge me, you will be no better than the "righteous" who frowned on Christ for hanging around what they thought were unsavory characters and hoochies, the unwelcome. The service team at Best Male Blogs looked over my blog as policy and welcomed me, more than I can say for most Christian sites. I go where the message is most needed, places that don't have steeples.